Is homosexuality a choice?
July 14th 2009 00:56
If you answered yes, I have a paradox I would like your input on...
First, I must confess, I heard this idea on a radio bit, I was channel surfing and didn't catch who mentioned it in a comedic way. When I heard the words I began to think, and a real paradox appeared.
So what is your answer? Do you believe homosexuality is a choice that is made, and can be just as easily unmade? Or do you hold that it's part of how a person is "wired?" I am confident that the latter is true, but there are oh so many who think the former. If you do believe that a person who leads a homosexual lifestyle does so only because it was what they "choose" I have a quandary for you to explain.
A qualifying statement first. Although I do accept the fact that homosexuality is much deeper than just a choice, I still wouldn't have any problem with people who made that choice. And I also accept that people who cannot accept it do so from their own weakness, not that of the person leading a homosexual lifestyle.
But on to the paradox. If it were true that a person chose to be homosexual, than it holds that others made a different choice. If one can choose to be homosexual, they must also be able to choose not to be. So what are they at the start? You know, before the "choice?"
If a person can choose their sexual orientation at will then it must be assumed that they are all starting from zero, so to speak. Maybe all people are born bisexual? Or unisexual? Or asexual? I'm serious, what explanation can there be, if sexuality is a choice to be made as a person comes to maturity, then that same person can't have the choice already made for them.
Or perhaps there is a simpler answer. Perhaps we aren't all made in the image of what someone imagines their god to be. Maybe, just maybe, we are all individuals with our own traits, or own foibles, and our own personalities?
What do you think? C'mon, doesn't that make more sense than thinking we all "choose" some so basic, so instinctual, as our sexuality?
First, I must confess, I heard this idea on a radio bit, I was channel surfing and didn't catch who mentioned it in a comedic way. When I heard the words I began to think, and a real paradox appeared.
So what is your answer? Do you believe homosexuality is a choice that is made, and can be just as easily unmade? Or do you hold that it's part of how a person is "wired?" I am confident that the latter is true, but there are oh so many who think the former. If you do believe that a person who leads a homosexual lifestyle does so only because it was what they "choose" I have a quandary for you to explain.
A qualifying statement first. Although I do accept the fact that homosexuality is much deeper than just a choice, I still wouldn't have any problem with people who made that choice. And I also accept that people who cannot accept it do so from their own weakness, not that of the person leading a homosexual lifestyle.
But on to the paradox. If it were true that a person chose to be homosexual, than it holds that others made a different choice. If one can choose to be homosexual, they must also be able to choose not to be. So what are they at the start? You know, before the "choice?"
If a person can choose their sexual orientation at will then it must be assumed that they are all starting from zero, so to speak. Maybe all people are born bisexual? Or unisexual? Or asexual? I'm serious, what explanation can there be, if sexuality is a choice to be made as a person comes to maturity, then that same person can't have the choice already made for them.
Or perhaps there is a simpler answer. Perhaps we aren't all made in the image of what someone imagines their god to be. Maybe, just maybe, we are all individuals with our own traits, or own foibles, and our own personalities?
What do you think? C'mon, doesn't that make more sense than thinking we all "choose" some so basic, so instinctual, as our sexuality?
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